Friday after Ash Wednesday
Isaiah 58:1-9a Matthew 9:14-15
Today’s gospel reminded me of a
short video that struck me many years ago. The clip focused on a particular
fourth grade girl in her classroom waiting for a special guest to be
introduced. She has no idea that it is her own father who has come home to
surprise her after being deployed in Iraq for the past year. As he enters the
classroom, her face completely disassembles in a wave of surprise and pure
emotion. The longing, the missed time and the powerful love between them is
beyond words and the sacrifice of the previous year is instantly washed away.
Jesus, in anticipating his own absence to come, also emphasizes the time he and
his friends have left together as precious and finite. He knows how hard their
paths will be.
Today’s readings ask us to expand our understanding of
fasting. Separation from loved ones, common acts of kindness and selflessness,
attending to the people around us in the moment are all seen as forms of
fasting that let “our light shine forth like the dawn while our wounds are
quickly healed.”
In everyday life, we all know the
positive feelings that come with helping someone. The line between giving and
receiving can blur easily when the joy of the recipient becomes a gift to the
giver. My Dad spent the last ten weeks of his life in the hospital. His
confinement conflicted greatly with his self-reliance. Still, he remained
positive, cheerful, even funny in a way I never knew. He displayed a gracious
charm and constant gratitude for the caring staff and the companionship of his
family. He died surprisingly quickly after leaving the hospital and my mom
asked me to take some cookies and a note to the nurses that had provided so
much care and comfort. I left the gift at the nursing station and was waiting
for the elevator when a pair of the nurses came racing around the corner to
catch me. Their damp eyes shined as they told me how special he was. Such a small
thing yet unforgettable.
Q: What can I
add to my fasting this Lent that will let the light of Christ shine forth more
brightly?
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